My understanding of this is that it is 'similar' to a flat battery on a conventional engine car. You are not trying to charge the dead battery, but supply enough current to 'start' the car, after that the car's logic should take over and begin charging the 12v battery (which begs the question of why the 12v battery lost it's charge in the first place).
You should connect the external battery to the 12v terminals without disconnecting anything else (making sure you get the polarity correct!). Then turn on the car, once the car has 'started' disconnect the external battery, but keep the car 'on' whilst it charges the 12v.
You should connect the external battery to the 12v terminals without disconnecting anything else (making sure you get the polarity correct!). Then turn on the car, once the car has 'started' disconnect the external battery, but keep the car 'on' whilst it charges the 12v.